I had Sprat locked in for a bit on the way to Church the other day. He was driving and I thought this would be a great time to discuss dating. ha ha ha ha ha!!! I have to grab my chances when I can. Sprat has not been that interested in girls yet and I am totally cool with that. I would prefer him to focus on sports and school work and not be distracted by girls. I told him how his dad and I met and fell in love. My hubby did not start dating until he went to college and it would be fine with me if Sprat did not date until he got out of college. I, on the other hand, was completely boy crazy and dated a lot in high school and in college. I will not lie, I enjoy being pampered and taken care of what woman would not. I am not bashing my own sex but I know how we can be and how much trouble we can cause and I do not want that to happen to my boys. It seems like the girls are getting more manipulative at earlier ages these days. I have seen this just watching some of my friends kids dating and hearing their stories. It is sad that people just cannot be honest with each other, that they have to play such childish games with another persons' feelings.
I would like for my boys to meet someone that is funny, attractive, smart, likes sports and is not afraid of getting dirty. I have seen these boys with these Barbie doll types and watching from the sidelines you just know that it is not going to work out. I told Sprat the reason I picked the above qualities is that when the beauty fades you need something to fall back on and intellect and a sense of humor will last longer than looks. I fell in love with my hubby because he knows how to make me laugh, especially when I am upset. Yes, he is usually the one that causes me to be upset 98 % of the time but his sense of humor has and will probably always pull his bacon out of the fire.
These are my random thoughts for today.
Stay tuned, tomorrow I will be talking about some yummy Brazilian recipes.
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